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Patients: Tips for taking your child to the doctor

Doctor and childBy Nicole and Damir Fonovich

Winter is here and everyone knows what that means. Not skiing, not hot chocolate, not kissing under the mistletoe. Colder temps bring cold and flu season, sick kids and doctor’s offices. (Cue sniffles and sneezing.) Any self-preserving individual will avoid sick people like the plague. But if you’re the parent of a young child you might not have a choice. Here are five life-changing tips for bringing your sick child to the doctor’s office and surviving the sniffle season ahead.

1. Avoid it at all costs.

Crying babies, snotty noses, heat-seeking germ missiles that love to embed themselves inside busy working mothers. These are all the things that await you at the doctor’s office. So if you can avoid it, do. The most efficient way is to have your child immunized. This requires some preemptive planning. Go early, the sooner the better. That way you can avoid all the mayhem of bringing a sick child to a doctor’s office full of other sick kids.

2. Choose wisely.

When it comes to sticking sharp things into your child’s skin, the friendlier the better. Don’t just settle for the first pediatrician that accepts your health insurance. Look for a doctor who works well with your child’s personality. Ideally it is someone who is great at distractions. “Dear sick little baby, here is a cute, fuzzy little bear.” The needle will be in and out before your baby knows what hit her. Be picky when it comes to your child’s doctor. You’re the one who will end up paying in the car ride home.

3. Play doctor.

So, you’ve done your best. You got your child immunized; you disinfected every surface in your house; you even kept her away from the coughing kid at the playground. But, she still came down with the flu. What’s worse than a sick, irritable kid? A sick kid who is terrified of the doctor. You have no choice. She’s spiked a fever and it’s not coming down. Before you drag baby to the doctor, prepare her for what to expect. Buy a toy doctor kit with things like a stethoscope, shot dispenser, and a fake plastic hammer. She will become familiar with the sites and sounds of the doctor and associate them with fun rather than fear.

4. In the waiting room, play some more.

Waiting rooms are germy places, and the last thing you want is to get infected yourself or to make your child even sicker. This is where your handy dandy iPad comes in use. It can provide great entertainment and distraction without having to share any germs. Head to the app store and download Luca Lashes Visits the Doctor. An interactive eBook written specifically to allay fears of the doctor’s visit, this app is perfect for any child nervous about seeing the MD.

5. Take control for your baby.

Be a model for your child. Project confidence, not fear when at the doctor. Make sure to ask plenty of questions and get all the answers you need. Bring a pen and paper, take notes, and be inquisitive. This helps your child see the doctor as a resource for help and information. There’s no need for nervousness here.

With these tips you can turn a potentially dreadful experience into a lot of fun for your child (and yourself), one that they will be eager to repeat in the future. Regular doctor’s visits will be a piece of cake after this allowing children to enjoy an important part of a lifetime of health benefits.


Nicole and Damir Fonovich are co-authors of Luca Lashes Visits the Doctor. For more helpful suggestions, visit the Luca Lashes YouTube Channel and LucaLashes.com.


  1. I love how you said to be picky when it comes to your child’s doctor, especially since my daughter doesn’t like going much. We’ve been going to a family doctor but I think it might be a good idea to start seeing a pediatrician. It’ll be a lot more child-friendly.

  2. My family moved across the country a few months ago because of a promotion that I got at work, and I need to take my twin daughters to a new family doctor next week for a check-up. I want to make sure that my three-year-old daughters feel comfortable at the doctor’s office, and I appreciate the tips you give in this article.

  3. Thanks for the tip to choose a friendly doctor instead of just looking for someone who accepts our insurance. My husband and I want to take our six-year-old son to a pediatrician because he’s been coughing a lot for the last week or so. Thanks for teaching me what factors to consider as we start looking for a local pediatrics service!

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